What is the reason that I can’t understand this simple principle. What is the reason that I can’t understand that my mind is not as big as it thinks it. Is it not insanity for me to believe that because my mind says I am not worthy, that I am not worthy. You see one of the biggest fallacies I believe, yes I believe, is that my mind is my brain. Wow, is that the biggest joke since…well since I believed that people were actually going to be nice and loving and kind in the world. I was disabused of this hopeful and loving way of life by my grandfather early on. He used to love to come to our house when I was a young boy and tease us until we cried and then laugh at us for crying. Please, dont feel sorry for me, because that is just an image about the ghost that I have made him into. However, when I was 8 years old and all the men of my family, my Dad and two uncles and I were riding in the Hearst to bury Grandpa and they were all crying. I said out loud, “why is everyone crying for Grandpa? He was mean and not a very nice man” Needless to say that did not go over well, because you dont say anything “disrepectful,” about the dead. As an aside, where the hell did that myth come from, that you dont say anything disrespectful about someone who is dead? If that is true, then why do still look at Hitler as the genocidal maniac he was. Shouldn’t we just forgive and forget? Can anyone answer that historically. I am afraid that I know where it came from, but dont want to make that argument unless I know it for sure.
“You are more than what you think you are.”  I find that when I engage fully with other people from a depth psychological perspective that I truly am expressing Who I am and more than anything else is I am not trying to express my “self.” I was engaged in a wonderful conversation with a friend yesterday and there came a point in our conversation when I wanted to give them “the right answer.” Yet I knew that if I did I would do nothing more than subjecting them to my interpretation of their reality. I was going to make them see them my mind was able to know more than their’s did about their own problems.
“Psychology has no self-help manual for its own affliction.” I am seeing a favorite site in depth psychology turning into a commercial site. I wont say which one, you might know Deb, and it saddens me. You see I see depth psychology as one of the major vehicles which can assist people into a level of healing that is unattainable through the other modalities of therapy. Why, because it allows a person to go within themselves and learn about their true Self. Then when I see the site I believe had/has the best chance in doing that become commercialized, it saddens me.
“Let the flame of anger free you of all falsity.” After I read what I just wrote, I have to tell the truth and say, it angers me that my favorite depth psychology site is become commercialized. Many people, Hillman, Woodman and others have made it their life’s journey to try and help heal the world. Now some person or other persons has made it about money. Why cant healing the world be enough. I would trade all the money in the world if people could not have to live in fear. For them to have “High Hopes,” as Bruuuce says.
Title quote by Carl Jung  James HillmanJohn O’Donohue